“No hour of life is lost that is spent in the saddle.” If that Winston Churchill quote about horses hits you right in the soul, then you’re probably just like me – destined to be an equestrian from day one.
I grew up in a family that was obsessed with horses, and it was impossible not to fall in love with these incredible animals. Following that tradition has felt as natural to me as breathing.
If horses are always on your mind and in your heart, these signs might just prove you were always meant to be an equestrian.
You Long for Peaceful Time Spent at the Barn
If you were born to be an equestrian, then there is nowhere else you would rather be than with your horse. The time spent bonding with your horse is meaningful and something you value close to your heart. You don’t need to say anything to feel at peace, as your horse understands your love without words. The barn is where you truly belong.
You Feel A Special Connection with Horses
For many equestrians, the connection you share with your horse is unlike anything else. Many of us feel it is easier to connect with horses than with other people. The bond is one you cherish for life and is one of the most meaningful connections you will ever have. Many of us even consider our horse to be our best friend.
You Would Rather Muck a Stall Than Clean Your House

Some people are repulsed by the thought of having to muck a stall. However, for horse owners, it is often preferable over housework. Sure, it is dirty work, but you are doing it to care for your horse. Plus, it is additional time you are able to spend with your horse and it still beats washing dirty dishes!
You Find Freedom on the Back of a Horse
As Helen Thompson said, “In riding a horse, we borrow freedom.” For equestrians, the most freeing place to be is on the back of a horse. When riding, nothing else in the world matters. You are free from any worries, as only you and your horse matter at that moment. Nothing beats the feeling of your hair blowing in the wind as you canter in an open field.
You Love Challenges and Set Big Goals
Equestrians see challenges as opportunities to learn and build their skill set. Those born with a love for the sport will never pass up the opportunity to get in the saddle, even if the ride may be challenging.
Horse riders know that it will not be easy to meet their goals, but the reward of achieving your dreams with your horse is worth all of the hard work.
You Work Hard and Aren’t Afraid to Face Your Fears
Not everyone has what it takes to face their fears. However, equestrians are tough and put their fears aside, always ready to grab life by the reins (literally!). Being an equestrian is hard work, and you have to be born with the determination to succeed.
You Love the Smell of Leather

There is just something so pleasant about the smell of leather. The smell of pristine leather that hits you when you walk into a tack store just can’t be beaten. If you prefer the smell of leather over fresh flowers, then you are definitely an equestrian!
You Don’t Mind Being Dirty
You know you were born to be an equestrian if you don’t mind being dirty. You don’t care if you smell like a horse, even if others notice. It doesn’t bother you if you have hay in your hair, mud on your boots, or horse slobber on your shirt, as these are signs of a day well spent.
Many people associate this passion and dedication with the archetype of the ‘horse girl’ – those who embrace every aspect of horse life wholeheartedly. If this sounds familiar, check out our horse girl article to see what defines a horse girl and why the term has become so popular.
That’s it for this one! Let me know in the comments if any of these signs resonate with you. Do you think you were born to love horses? I certainly know I was!

